Right off the top, I told her I’m not exactly an easy customer. My tops can’t be too low in the front because I have a breast prosthesis and a catheter scar and I want to make sure they’re well covered. Tops also need sleeves long enough to cover my PICC and wide enough fit over my lymphedema. And most importantly, I just want the whole thing to be comfortable to wear.
So Thankful for Help Shopping for My New Outfit
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Right off the top, I told her I’m not exactly an easy customer. My tops can’t be too low in the front because I have a breast prosthesis and a catheter scar and I want to make sure they’re well covered. Tops also need sleeves long enough to cover my PICC and wide enough fit over my lymphedema. And most importantly, I just want the whole thing to be comfortable to wear.
Flu Season Facts
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
- Wash your hands, wash your hands, wash your hands ... or, if you can’t wash your hands, use an alcohol-based hand sanitizer.
- Refrain from touching your nose, mouth and eyes.
- Stay away from people who appear to be sick.
- If you are going to have visitors, don’t be afraid to ask them if they or any immediate family members are ill.
- Consider a flu vaccine.
Burlesque legend joins Burlesque Against Breast Cancer
Hello Folks,
It gives me nothing but great pleasure to announce the news that BABC have themselves a new recruit on the management team. She is a British burlesque legend and her name is Jo King.
Jo has had over 30 years experience in performance and is the founder of Europe’s original burlesque training academy. She is the founder of the London School of Striptease and the London Academy of Burlesque, where she has taught over 10,000 women and not to mention a few of us guys too. Specifically, Jo has worked with people with disabilities and more recently, has taught burlesque those who have gone through breast cancer.
Why did she do this?
“I want women, all women, to feel fabulous about themselves regardless of age, shape, size or ability!”
AT BABC, we think that this is the perfect attitude of what we want to achieve and showcase, especially within the realms of Breast Cancer. Because this crippling disease shouldn’t hold back or hinder anyone from doing what they want. I mean, if Def Leppard can have a one-armed drummer, then....
Jo has collaborated with many well-known names including: The Erotic Awards, The International Workshop Festival, Seven Dials Festival, Coco de Mer and the UK’s biggest Burlesque Jam at the Royal Festival Hall. She also has an impressive list of television appearances including; Strip School for Channel 5 in 2003, the award-winning Crippendales in 2006 and more recently, Dawn Gets Naked (with Dawn Porter) for BBC3.
Jo choreographed showgirl Immodesty Blaize’s original, highly acclaimed, reverse striptease act. She has taught many of the current professional burlesque performers such as Miss Polly Rae, Honey Lulu, and Kiki Kaboom, all of whom have also benefited from Jo’s inimitable choreographic skills and artistic direction. She also choreographs actresses and dancers for film, television and stage work.
Jo is an ambassador for the industry, giving her candid views in the press and on many radio and TV shows. Considered an expert in her field, she is often hired to give her incredibly motivational seminars about self belief and positive body image.
We are very excited about what a difference Jo can bring to Burlesque Against Breast Cancer and how she can help us take the organisation to the next level, thus enabling us to sell more books, put on more great shows for you and raise lots more lovely money for Macmillan Cancer Support.
Mark, BABC
Presented with a Great Opportunity
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
What is Wholeness?
Pin Up Competition and £1,000 donation to Macmillan!
LoveHoney.co.uk has joined forces with Burlesque Against Breast Cancer to find a new Pin Up girl - and it could be you. If your wardrobe is more Grace Kelly than Lady Gaga, or you fancy yourself as a budding Bettie Page, then LoveHoney.co.uk want to hear from you.
To celebrate the launch of LoveHoney's Pin Ups, their new Collectible Vintage Vibrator Gift Range, they are giving you the chance to win a full professional makeover and photo shoot with esteemed Pin Ups photographer Tony Nylons, the UK's foremost pin-up photographer and editor of Glimpse magazine. You will also get a chance to be styled in fabulously fifties underwear by Kiss Me Deadly.
Enter LoveHoney's £1,000 make over competition and you won’t just be helping yourself. The lovely LoveHoney team is also donating £1,000 to Macmillan through Burlesque Against Breast Cancer to show their support for the cause.
To enter, just visit www.lovehoney.co.uk/pinups and click on £1,000 makeover.
Here's hoping the winner is a BABC supporter. Good luck!
Emily
Emily Dubberley is a bestselling author and the founder of Burlesque Against Breast Cancer. For more visit: www.dubberley.com
How Am I Doing?
Sunday, September 26, 2010
More Clinical Trial Questions
Saturday, September 25, 2010
Cancer Treatment Centers of America Webinar
Friday, September 24, 2010
- Hear directly from the doctors who were the first in the United States to use this technology (Steven Standiford, MD, FACS, National Director of Surgical Oncology at CTCA; and Pablo Lavagnini, MD, Director of Radiation Oncology at CTCA) ** At the end of the webinar, Dr. Standiford and Dr. Lavagnini will be taking questions live
- Learn what IORT is and how it works
- Learn who is candidate for IORT
- Hear how IORT benefits patients from both clinical and quality of life perspectives
Be More Positive … Arggg!
Thursday, September 23, 2010
Canadian Cancer Society ~ Edmonton & Area Volunteer Opportunities
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
Another Onc Appointment
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
Shout Out To ~ Alberta Caregivers Association Convention
Monday, September 20, 2010
- have experienced or witnessed the frustration, exhaustion, and rewards of providing care for a loved one
- have had difficulties finding or accessing services and supports for caregivers
- would like to see an Alberta where caregivers are recognized, valued and supported
Another Angel Is In Heaven
Sunday, September 19, 2010
Rest in peace my coffee buddy.
Volunteer Appreciation Dinner and Awards
Saturday, September 18, 2010
Comedy Night for Cancer
Friday, September 17, 2010
The State University of New York at Buffalo: Breast Cancer Study
Thursday, September 16, 2010
Thoughts Matter Immediatly after Breast Cancer Diagnosis
By SARA SALDI
Published: September 16, 2010
What goes through a woman’s mind when she first hears the words, “You have breast cancer”? One in eight women will hear those words at some point in their lives and yet very little research has been conducted about women’s thoughts at this early stage before treatment or surgery.
The ways women move from becoming a “breast cancer patient” immediately after diagnosis to integrating cancer into their understanding of themselves is revealed in a new study by Robin Lally, assistant professor in the School of Nursing.
The study was published recently in Cancer Nursing, one of the nation’s top nursing journals.
“The effect of a cancer diagnosis on a woman’s self concept is not something that health care providers often consider when they are focused on the physical aspects of the disease and treatment early after diagnosis,” Lally explains.
Her study reveals how women acclimate to their diagnosis as they adapt to a new world—a foreign environment in which there are new roles and new people with a new culture and strange words.
The study found that “threatened self-integrity”—the threat to how we know ourselves—is the main concern for women as they acclimate to being “breast cancer patients” or “survivors.” The women’s self-integrity also was threatened by how they perceived others’ impressions of them and by whether they attributed developing cancer to their own actions or inaction.
From the findings, Lally has developed a theory of acclimating to breast cancer that focuses on three stages to the initial adjustment process: surveying the situation, taking action and the emerging self.
Her findings may help health providers better understand the thought process of women as they come to grips with the meaning of breast cancer in their lives as early as a week or two after discovering they have the disease.
“These women should know they are not alone in their thinking, that their initial thoughts are not abnormal; they are shared by others in the early days after being diagnosed,” Lally says.
Lally interviewed 18 women age 37 to 87 diagnosed with stage 0 to stage II breast cancer. The women were interviewed within six to 21 days after the diagnosis and were asked to think back to the day they were diagnosed with breast cancer and share their experiences.
Lally explains that essentially, women will work through a period of internal reflection about how breast cancer will affect them and those around them (“I have something that others dread”) to taking control of their immediate environments (reducing negative thoughts and using distraction) to incorporating cancer into their lives and contemplating the future.
In fact, many women in Lally’s study embraced personal change and saw the diagnosis as “a wake-up call” to appreciate life and the people in it. For the most part, women felt optimistic and hopeful that they would survive their cancer, Lally says.
At the end of the study, Lally was surprised to discover the “amount of mental energy that women expend when thinking about their diagnosis and strategies to control their environment” as a way to protect themselves from uncomfortable moments that arise when they are the “cancer patient” in social and work situations.
Sleepy Fall Weather
That Emotional Conversation with my Husband
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
Final Goodbye to My Friend Christine
Monday, September 13, 2010
Watersports….oh I say matron!!!
I will admit that despite the title this blog is not about the rather sordid affair of water sports of the sexually perverse type. Instead, I am referring to my recent underwater rehearsals, hot tub antics and general debauchery that has now become standard of a Khandie weekend.
Saturday saw me performing for my first ever Dr Sketchy’s in London (I have done others elsewhere). What a cracking venue!!! I mean honestly, The Old Queen’s Head on the Essex Road is stunning. Claire who runs the whole thing is a dream to work with and I am already looking forward to coming.
I had a great time modelling especially with the rather hot, Luke…hubba hubba. Sadly I don’t have any images of him to flaunt at you, but trust me that boy is damn fine. Damn damn damn fine. There was no hardship posing for 10mins with my head on his lap let me tell you. Calm down KK…..
After the show though, I had to hightail it off to my lovely mate Nikki (who runs www.NikitaSablier.net). You see this luscious lady was celebrating her birthday. I am sure she said it was her 21st…hahaha. It was like meeting up with old mates though, as on my arrival all people from my modelling assignments (photographers and fellow models) were there. Was a really funny evening with much antics spent in the hot tub. No, not in that porno kind of way. One of the highlights was two rather ‘brave’ men donning bikinis to join us in the pool. The party was a smash, lots of naughty photos of drunk people… I was a good girl. I had a shoot/rehearsal next day, so no drinky poosies
So, after crawling out of bed at stupid o’clock in the morning.. Ok, more mid morning, Matt Miller refused to make me a cup of tea, instead making me suffer the awful brew that some adolescent (ok so he was 22) made me….it was awful. YUCK! Cue me stealing bacon from the bacon sandwiches that Geetee had made and before I knew it, I was on my way to Aylesbury.
The lovely people at Scubaducks had offered me the chance to use their scuba training pool to rehearse my commissioned underwater mermaid/watersprite act. Along with Baron from Immortal Eye Photography, we started some basic warm up exercises…and then (near) disaster.
How can I put this… you see, I have a fairly large chest on me and trying to stay under the water deep enough to rehearse was impossible. My mammaries/tits/boobs/chest-icles/bazookas/top bollocks/puppies were proving to be good flotation devices. Oh there’s a salute to Mae West (whose name was used as a nickname to life saving vests back in the day) and after 3 kilos (!) of lead shot were added to keep me down (hahahaha), rehearsals could get under way. Though firstly, I needed to get used to the water its self (needless to say a lot more rehearsals are required) and thankfully, Scubaducks are more than accommodating! Thank you, guys I owe you!
FYI, if you like my swimsuit it’s from For Luna …perfect pinup! So go buy it! I have it in red, black and leopard print.
Next rehearsal will see some more experiments with movement under the water so hopefully I will have video footage to show you…here’s hoping at least.
Right now I am in Bournemouth this weekend. Off to see my friends and watch a burlesque show (Teasy Pleasy). My mate’s (past BABC performer) Glory Pearl, Vie, Sensu’Elle and Paul are all performing in various capacities so should be a great night. Will no doubt blog and abuse photos for you all later.
Ciao! Off to paint my nails ready for tonight…oh the glamour! Hahaha....
The Tomorrow Project
Sunday, September 12, 2010
Clinical Trial Onc Meeting
Saturday, September 11, 2010
Telethon Tonite /w Katie Couric ~ Stand Up To Cancer
Friday, September 10, 2010
Tight Calves
Thursday, September 9, 2010
Lunch with a Friend
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
Backstage at the Bombshell Ball
I'm still on a high from the uber-exertion of Go-Go dancing the night away so I thought I'd write a few lines to share about the goings on at my first Australian gig, The Bombshell Ball in Brisbane.
Napping a Lot During the Day
Tuesday, September 7, 2010
Healing Lifestyles & Spas - Lymphatic Drainage
Monday, September 6, 2010
I have been dealing with a lot of physical pain for about a year.
Well, I am starting to pay attention to my whole body and spirit and found this article and website that I wanted to share.
This article and the one on 'Dry brushing' , which you will be able to connect to from this article, are very informative and may help you feel better.
You can also sign up for the free news letter they publish.
I hope you are enjoying this Labor Day holiday.
Healing Lifestyles & Spas - Lymphatic Drainage
Shout Out ~ Comedy Night in Sherwood Park, AB
What: Comedy Night in Sherwood Park
When: Thurs, Sept 16, 7:30–10:30pm
Venue: Festival Place, Sherwood Park
Cost: $29.00 plus service charges
Tickets: www.festivalplace.ab.ca
Contact: graham.neil@ctv.ca
Conversations at the Clinic
Sunday, September 5, 2010
Life Changes
Hi All,
BABC kindly asked me if I would like to write a little something and being one for a challenge, I thought I’d give it a go (those of you that know me know I’m not much of a writer more of a talker…Ahem!), so for all those who don’t know much about me I thought I’d give you a little bit of background on Beulah Bell.
I grew up in north London and danced every since I can remember. I still hear my Ballet teacher Mrs Swan chanting “good toes, naughty toes” in my head every now and again. As I got older, I grew bored of the restrictive dance classes & longed for more freedom to express myself, so at 18 I found myself stepping into Sophisticats one of the more ‘Klassy’ strip clubs in the West End to audition.
My legs were shaking, my heart pounding with a thousand thoughts running through my head as I waited behind the curtain for the DJ to announce my name. As soon as he did though, all those feelings just disappeared and I just ripped back the curtain and I strutted on to the stage, like I’d walked on stage so many times though out my youth but this time it was different, this time I was going to take my clothes off….
The rush of being on stage, the lights beaming into my glitter encrusted eyes for the next 6 minutes and 33 seconds I drifted in to the most beautiful place being carried by Blondie’s Rapture that by the end of my audition, I was blissfully embracing my nakedness & I strutted back stage on the biggest high I have even known. I knew then that I loved the tease!
I know what you’re all thinking Burlesque is different to just stripping. Well... To be honest, it’s not.
By 21, I was working in the club that changed my life, Sunset Strip in Soho London, one of the oldest clubs around. It had the most amazing atmosphere it was like stepping back in time whenever I walked in there, not like any other club I had worked in we only performed on stage where we got tips. It was more like an old burlesque club of the 1950’s than a modern day strip club each girl had their own unique style from gothic to cheese cake, Sunset taught me how to really be myself & set me free. It was then I decided I wanted to get into burlesque, but at that point the revival was pretty small & very hard to get into, so I put it on the back burner for the next 5 years. Those years were lost in a blizzard of glitter and fairies and without a doubt, those fairies shaped the performer I have become.
So at 26, my dancing life was cut short. It was a Monday night at Sunset. I had been at college for the last 8 months studying art & design, my life was pretty hectic I was on the go 24/7. This night though, I didn’t feel right at all my stomach was in knots & I had to fight back my tears of pain on stage, usually I could mask anything on stage as I would be taken to that beautiful place & everything would just slip away and it would just be me and the music but not tonight. And unlike me, I cut my show early and staggered up the stairs with tears streaming down my cheeks. I was taken to hospital where I stayed for a month after major surgery, following a small bowel obstruction.
Six stone, a nine inch scar, no job, no money & unable to finish my college course, I fell down a pit of darkness. I had never been anywhere so bleak so lonely. I had no dreams, no inspiration, no creativity, then Amber Rosia & I founded Ragdoll Rebels & my life turned round. We decided to put on our own Burlesque/Polesque (Burlesque on a Pole) club nights & launched in July 2009 at The Embassy Club in Mayfair.
Burlesque really saved my soul. We performed & promoted our nights all over London and with each performance, my confidence slowly returned but then a year later, I sadly stopped working on Project Ragdoll (the nature of promoting was too stressful & as a performer I was not cut out to handle that at all) and at the same time something very odd happened. A magician found me & I landed a magicians assistants role (something I had dreamed about since I was very small) for the legend Simon Drake at his House of Magic. All I needed now was some stability, some security for the first time in my life I wanted a…..’PROPER JOB’.
So unlike most Burly acts who come from a life of day jobs & offices & wanting to break free of that I did the reverse. I finally got offered a receptionist position so now performing is for fun. Don’t get me wrong, if I got offer a residency in Vegas I would be off in a New York minute but I’m realistic, I’m not guna be the next Dita & to be really honest, I like the way I have it. Too much glitter can go to a girls head & those days are over.
Well, lots of very exciting things have been happening in the Land of Miss Beulah Bell. The most recent was coming runner up in Bizarre Magazine & having an amazing shoot with seven smokin’ hot chicks, which is featured in the October issue! The day was fantastic. Eight half naked girls running about a beautifully run down Edwardian house in Shoreditch, whilst being snapped by a fantastic photographer, Joe Plimmer.
On the Burlesque front, I have been doing quite a few gigs at Volupte for their Circus Nights with Miss Amber Rosia and we have been performing our ‘Lion Tamer’ act which has been great fun!
I had a spectacular night down in Southampton once for the Uni Ball at the Guild Hall alongside the wonderful Tia Brodie (Britons Got Talent) & also at Roxy Twirls’ ‘On a Night Like This’ (a Kylie tribute night) where I got to perform my first ever act I came up with, the LoCo Motion & the Classic 2 Hearts!
I was also down in Bournemouth for Cherry Pop’s Butterfly Ball which was absolutely fantastic & performed at Café De Paris for the TVX Birthday bash. Amber Rosia, Angelita Alahambra & I are the resident performers at The Cheeky Cabaret at The Live Room, in good old Palmers Green returning on Tuesday 5th October (only £3 entry) with an array of fantastic acts including my dear friend Rio Wild. Watch out for shameless FB promotion!
Beulah Bell has performed for Burlesque Against Breast Cancer and will be performing next at the House of Magic on the 24th September. Tickets are available: http://www.houseofmagic.co.uk/public.html
Busy Days Finally Caught Up With Me
Friday, September 3, 2010
Michael Douglas Talks Cancer with David Letterman
Thursday, September 2, 2010
One Bank Holiday, Two Nights out,Three Cities (ish), One Speeding Ticket and A Film
So you can guess from the title of this blog I have been a manic lady once again…nothing out the ordinary there then??!!
Well you would be wrong as I dont make it a habit to get speeding tickets. Damn my heavy foot and damn the rather dishy policeman who caught me with his snazzy camera on my way home from Northampton. I will put my hands up and say SORRY… not that it will stop me getting the fine and points. GRIM.
Well first things first this lady left work on Friday (i mean vanilla work) to Aylesbury to see my best buddy Big S. He and I go way back to my military days….I love Big S. Especially when he cooks for me…Sausage n mash! My favourite. I may not be the classiest of birds but I am true to my roots of british grub!
The next day I flew up the motorway towards Telford to see a good mate of mine Steve B (former singer with the metal band Vert). We headed off to Wolverhampton for the night…and I was shocked. Not only did we get two double JDs n cokes for less than £8 (hey I live in London) but also that two pubs played S Club 7 and Las Ketchup. It was like the last 15 years hadnt happened. Steve and I quickly sunk our drinks and headed off to his favourite metal/rock club The Planet. aaahhh the plusating beats of metal and rock…
By the time we got our asses home by way of a lovely taxi driver who put up with my singing, Steve’s stupid questions and both our drunken ramblings I was ready for bed….SHATTERED.
By morning though Steve dragged my weary ass off to have a bite to eat…namely a roast dinner! I mean WTF….I was hungover! But dutifully tucked in…only stopping when I realised it wasnt gluten free (wheat allergy!). Damn it…
Anyway I couldnt hang about too much as I had to race off to Northampton to see Luli Blue a lovely mate of mine and fellow burlesquer. I adore this lady…not only is she wonderfully yummy she also owns her own burlesque/belly dancing studio. That night Luli dragged me off to this tiki bar tucked away in Northampton town centre. I would never have guessed it was there if I hadnt had her with me. Its called Hakamou and is lovely! I had a fair few cocktails that night (non alcoholic admittedly) but couldnt have better service or better drinks. Each one I sampled was delicious. Strongly recommend you go. I am definitely going next time…I may even see if I can hire the place for a private party…or shoot.
The next morning both of us were up early so sadly we couldnt stay and party the night away….
The bank holiday Monday had to have been the most surreal and oddly enjoyable days of my life so far. Ok so that does sound mushy but its not everyday you get to go over lines for a film with a man none other than the world renown ALAN MOORE!!! and to not only have him but Mitch Jenkins to direct/film it! Mitch and I have worked together with Alan before to create the Dodgem Logic burlesque issues (along with Luli and Darkteaser!). I had an absolute blast and cant wait to see the results though more filming is to take place…I wont tell you anything about the script as thats just not ethical but I am excited.
Having the three of us girls in the same room (Darkteaser, Luli and I) was a recipe for chaos and before long we were all howling with laughter and telling rude jokes. Just like old times. Not sure why I dont have a picture of Darkteaser….oh well. She is a gem. I even got to have a longish chat with Mr Moore himself which was wonderful as I was rather nervous of meeting him again…the first time I met him I honestly had no idea who he was. I just thought he was a lovely (albeit very hairy) man with cracking smile and a good sense of wit. Now that I know more about him I was worried I wouldnt be able to string two words together let alone go through scenes with him…damn it. Thankfully his jokes and loveliness put me at ease…that and him saying a certain word over and over again…I wont tell you what it was as it will spoil the film.
Anyway one speeding ticket later, a long drive home and I found myself tucked up in bed ready to sleep. aaahhh randomness rocks my socks.
Ciao ciao!
For more on BABC alumni Khandie Kisses, go to: www.khandiekisses.com